THE ART OF GETTING WHAT YOU WANT

In this article, I will talk about several things relating to how you can change your mindset and the way of your thinking.

Possible ways of achieving what you want and how we are going to acquire it.

Let me make this clear, having motivation is necessary for reaching your goal. But you should work for the things that YOU want.

First, you need to analyze what you really want and what your goals are. Altering it now and then is not a problem but you need to go deep and tap into your mind and find the real reason and why you are so determined to achieve it.

For example, write the things that you really want to do and why you want to do them. I heard that if you write about 20 pages of the things that you want to achieve in this life span of yours, you will not only gain clarity but also know what your next step is.

Second, As we get older our dreams change or sometimes we don’t really have a sense of direction. If you don’t know what career path really interests you but you still want to achieve things. All you need to do is, choose the career path that you think you can handle and maybe lead your life with it. Once you know about it is about and learn things, you will soon realize whether it is for you or not.

Basically, my point is, do not complain without giving it a shot first. Because if you don’t try it you will never know and this life is too short and you can’t just let things go. Time and practice are what make it perfect. So, your goal should be “Never give up” no matter what your path is.

If you want to get what you want, you need to work for it. For example, if you want a hot body, you need to work for it and learn to stay consistent with your workout.

My point is falling in love with the lifestyle of working and thriving.

We all know that we don’t want things that easy. Because if you get the lifestyle that you had dreamed of in your hand right now, but don’t have the record to show how you really got it. Wouldn’t you feel like you don’t deserve it? I mean I will. I mean yes, I will enjoy it for a while, but when people ask me how I got such blessings and how lucky I am to get things this easily. Then I will realize that I really do have it easy and I don’t have a record of hardship to show how far I have come. Because I don’t have any.

Everything that we plan to succeed in, the career we choose is never easy. It is about learning, finding, experiencing, understanding, and enduring all the things that come your way. That is how you will know that you deserve the very opportunity you get. To put it easily, you need to get your ass up and work for it- as Kim Kardashian said. I don’t really listen to their advice but when it comes to business and career, they do work for it.

For example, yes, they did have their mother to coddle them and actually help them in getting connections, but if you really look at what they are doing, you can tell that their mother was just a push button that helped to start their career. Kim started with modeling and also the reality show made them famous. But she always worked hard. She really does all the things that she needs to do to get what she wants. I know you might be thinking that this is a poor example. But I am talking only based on their business careers. Then we see Kourtney and Khloe doing her business as well. They have created a place of women empowerment and also inspired all the people to start a business and it doesn’t matter where you are.

Kendall had a lot of connections to where she is right now. But you should also know that she is quite gifted with the beauty that helped her to become successful in her career. She really worked hard to maintain that body and worked every day to become as successful as she is today. Social Media does help them. People follow them for a reason. Then we have kylie, the youngest billionaire. My theory on how far she has come is purely based on her social media platform. She transformed herself, made herself look badass, and got her lips done. If she would have started her business without getting her lips done, she would have never become a billionaire in the first place. As I said her mom did help her. But it is she who influenced people with good clothing styles, makeup, hair, etc. That is the secret behind promoting her business.

It is all about the uniqueness of your idea. Kylie's idea was to make a lip kit with a lip liner in it. Because she as a person who loved makeup couldn’t find anyone who had done that. You see, immediately after she had released it, people around her started doing that as well. So, it is all about the influence you make on people.

So, remember to fall in love with hardships and aimless days, depressing days and the days that will want to make you quit. Because when you get there, after working your ass off, you will finally be SATISFIED. Actually show people and yourself more specifically how far you have come.

If you KNOW what YOU want and are willing to work for it, that’s when you know that YOU will succeed. If you understand the basics of getting things you want, you are golden.

Trust the process. You see if you only want the benefits of power and the things you want right now, then you really in your heart don’t want that. Because you are just in love with the idea of it but not the whole thing.

The whole thing involves work, hardships, learning things, being open-minded, and influencing people. Work till you reach your aim. This may seem like an article where you would assume that there is an easy way of getting things you want. But honestly, this article is all about enjoying the real deal of success, and not only will you feel satisfied but also have a strong mentality.

“The great secret of getting what you want from life is to know what you want and believe you can have it.” — Norman Vincent Peale.